Category Archives: Fr. Terry’s Sharing

Fr. Terry’s January 6th Bulletin Article

Fr. Terry’s Sharing…

One more week of the Christmas Season, which always ends with the Baptism of Jesus.  I am always appreciative of all the people of the parish who contribute to the beautiful liturgies of this season.  Always on the top of the list are our musicians, vocal and instrumental.  We all know how busy the time for Christmas is and then add in the times of practice.  They come early to sing songs to set the stage for our worship.  Because we all have family to celebrate with, our last few Masses are the least attended.  Yet we have some faithful people who provide the music even when the time is not convenient.  And yes, some of them even play for more than one Mass.  They really are our choirs of angels in more than one way.  I also am grateful to those who decorate, help out with all the liturgical ministries:  sacristans, greeters, ushers, lectors, eucharistic ministers, gift bearers, altar servers, book bearers, Fr. Albert, Fr. Luan, and Fr. Tom.  I would also like to thank our staff who help with so much of the background preparation.  Last, but not least, all of you who come to give God fitting honor & worship and who form a welcoming spirit to our many guests.

One often wonders what Joseph and Mary must have felt to be housed in a stable, to greet the baby Jesus in such a humble way.  You don’t hear about them griping, swearing (God forbid), embarrassed, or saying “why me”.  This weekend, we don’t hear in scriptures about the three Magi, Kings, Wise Men – ridiculing them, laughing at them, criticizing them as lousy parents, or turning them into authorities.  Everyone present, from parents to those who come see the baby Jesus, react as if it is the most beautiful thing they have ever seen in their lives.  In the busy lives we lead, let’s not forget to approach God’s gift of love with the same awe and wonder.  The Magi brought gifts, but they could never outdo the gift to us from God.  Jesus, the gift of love, compassion, forgiveness, and salvation is ours, now and forever.    Thank you all for being part of my Christmas and giving me a family (God’s family) to celebrate with and journey along side to God’s Kingdom of Heaven!   God Bless everyone!


Second Week of Advent

Fr. Terry’s Sharing…

Having had the blessing of coming from a rich, mixed faith background, I have always experienced Advent and Christmas as seasons that stress, celebrate, and honor that which unites.  I have studied extensively how music, words, and melody were used to help people learn about God.  This was especially important to those who were illiterate.  During the Advent Season, one of the most important hymns used in our worship is “O Come, O Come Emmanuel”.  This song was written by an Anglican Priest by the name of John Mason Neale.  Benedictine Monks brought the hymn to our Catholic Church and Worship.

Titles were very important because it describes who and what we long for that the world cannot give.  These are known as Messianic titles from Scriptures that prophesied and foreshadowed Jesus’ coming.  For the people of Jesus’ day, it was to foreshadow his coming into the world at what we know as Christmas.  However, for us today, it is to remind us of His second coming, which in our prayers and worship we express.  In these seven verses, we realize that through Jesus’ first coming, he was going to be the ransom paid to set Israel and the nations free.  So in a sense, each verse is helping us place our eyes on Jesus’ return by anticipating, yearning, hoping, and aching for His second coming.

Ephesians tells us that the Christian life oscillates between these two poles:  the overflowing joy of the “already” redeemed and the tearful yearning of the “not yet” redeemed.

Let’s use this Advent Season to celebrate the things that unify us in our Christian Faith.  Let this Advent Season be a celebration of our being Good Neighbors who support each other in charity, understanding, and a profound sense of peace.  Let us also, during this Advent Season, be examples of faith, hope, and love to those who have no faith or relationship with God.  May they see in our examples, the transforming power of love that Jesus mentored for us.  And in this Advent Season, may we remember in action and prayers those who are homeless, poor, and struggling.  Joseph (our patron saint of our Diocese) and Mary (our patron saint of our country) experienced those things when they fled to Egypt to save the life of the baby Jesus.  May our words and actions be reflective of their trust in the will of God and their living of God’s love.


Fr. Terry’s November 18th Bulletin article

Fr. Terry’s Sharing…

Thanksgiving is approaching.  I have some wonderful memories and experiences around Thanksgiving.

¨ My Mom staying up almost all night to cook this incredible meal and it was so good that almost all of us, if there was even remotely possible any room in our stomach, would prefer another helping over dessert.

¨ I remember Mom and Dad coming up with a family tradition to teach us kids about Thanksgiving.  We put together bags of fruit and nuts, homemade treats, and a collection of three $10 gift cards to use for McDonald’s or the local Pizza Hut.  And then my folks would drive us around town to give them to the homeless people.

¨ Of working in St. Joachim Parish in Plainview, MN for Fr. LeRoy Eikens.  He was the best homemade soup chef I have ever met.  He would invite all the parish widows and widowers to spend Thanksgiving with him.  He would make a huge feast and would line up card games, board games, and a sing-a-long as he played the piano.

¨ Of being a pastor at Wessington, which had a lot of elderly people who would have to spend Thanksgiving alone because they didn’t have any relatives within a reasonable drive.  The town decided to celebrate Thanksgiving as a whole community.  I remember the Lutheran pastor, five school staff members, and myself meeting at the school kitchen at 2:30am to cook the turkeys.  Others came at 6:00am to peel the potatoes for  mashed potatoes.  Others came at 7:00am to decorate, setup tables, make the gravy, the cranberry sauce, the vegetables, and bake the bread.  Finally, others came at 8:00am with the desserts.  We spent the day together and sent home leftovers for the elderly.  Personally, I was always amazed there was any leftovers, but I think the Lutheran pastor must have learned how to multiply leftover food.  About the middle of the day, we made homemade ice cream.  I remember saving a lot of gas on the way home to Miller because I was so round and roll-able, that I did not need a car.

In everyone of those experiences, there was no doubt what Thanksgiving was:  it was people and the most profound experience of gratitude that permeated your whole being – rolled together and richly blessed by God.

Join us for a Thanksgiving Day Mass at 8:15am in the Nave. 

Remember the word Eucharist means Thanksgiving!  Bring an item from your meal that you would like to have blessed.  There will be NO Turkey at this Mass, as I am sending it (Fr. Tom) home to his family in Milbank.  LOL.


Fr. Terry’s October 21st Bulletin Article

Fr. Terry’s Sharing…

As our Parish ages, we are seeing parishioner’s needs growing and changing.  We do a good job of sending Communion Ministers to the nursing homes on Sunday.  Many of them watch the Mass on TV, but obviously they miss out on receiving the Eucharist.  We are having more parishioners laid up in their homes as they recover from surgery or other medical reasons.  We want to send the Eucharist to them through their family or friends.  We have ordered more pyxes, containers to carry the hosts.  So if you know of someone in this situation, please contact Linda in the Parish office.  She will train you on how to do a Communion Service for a loved one.  She will give you a pyx to use until the situation ends or changes. When you come for Saturday/Sunday Mass, please let the person at the volunteer check-in table know that you will be taking the Eucharist at the Mass for a homebound.  When you come up to receive the Eucharist at Communion time for yourself, open the pyx and ask for an extra host.  After the Closing Prayer we will invite you to come to the front and center where the priest will meet you.  We will offer a special prayer and then send you out.  As you take Communion to the homebound, please assure them of our prayers for them.

Please be our eyes, hands, and hearts to care for the Parish family.  If you see a need or a ministry not done but needed, take the time to pass that info on to one of the priests or a staff member.


Fr. Terry’s September 16th Bulletin Article

Fr. Terry’s Sharing…

I do not know about you, but I am ready for some “good news”.  Our children and youth are living good stewardship. 

Here are some of their sharings: 

¨ I helped get our guest room ready for company

¨ I helped redo my sister’s room

¨ I spent the day helping my mom do cleaning

¨ I helped set the dining room table

¨ I helped my aunt and the elderly

¨ I helped with the laundry

¨ I helped a neighbor pick her garden to share with the poor

¨ I did dishes without being asked

¨ I read stories from the children’s bible to my brother

¨ I helped my dad buy school supplies for a family that needed them

¨ I helped my sister with her math homework

¨ I helped carry boxes up to my sister’s college room

¨ I babysat for free

¨ I helped my brother pick out a gift for my mom’s birthday

¨ I carried the groceries in from the car

¨ I washed dad’s car and boy did it need it

¨ I helped with my cousins bikes

¨ I helped make supper

¨ I taught my sister how to make peanut butter and jelly sandwiches

¨ I helped hold my dog while it got shots

¨ I made breakfast while mom slept in after taking care of my sick brother

¨ I helped pack the car for our vacation trip

¨ I helped get the garage ready for my sister’s graduation party

¨ I helped at the Banquet

¨ I gave my lemonade stand money to the poor

¨ I cleaned my room without being asked

¨ I helped mom make coffee and soup

¨ I helped my neighbor take out his garbage

¨ I helped mom write a sympathy card to a neighbor in the hospital

¨ I helped my dad by staying out of his way

¨ I helped dust the house

¨ I made my brother smile when he was sad

¨ I put a bandage on my sister’s scraped knee when she fell off her bike

¨ I held my sister when she was having a nightmare

¨ I helped pick up the toys three times in one day

¨ I helped my brother blow his nose

¨ I helped mom bake cookies for a neighbor who had a bad day

¨ I helped my brother finish his ice cream so it did not go to waste

¨ I taught my brother how to play a computer game – he was a slow learner

¨ I folded the laundry for my dad

¨ I helped carry out the recyclables to the curb

¨ I helped my parents learn English

¨ I picked up the coffee beans that spilled

¨ I played with my siblings and we did not fight

¨ I picked apples and helped my mom make pies

¨ I was good in church and sang all the songs

¨ I lovingly took care of my baby sister

¨ I painted pumpkins

¨ I took out the garbage after only being asked twice

¨ I helped put a puzzle together with my grandma

¨ I helped grandpa find his lost glasses

¨ I helped grandpa and grandma

¨ I cleaned the basement

¨ I cleaned the yard

¨ I put away the silverware

¨  and many others.

They often share who they have prayed for:

╬ Grandparents

╬ their priests

╬ those who are being saints

╬ their family

╬ those who are sick

╬ those who are poor

╬ those who are homeless

╬ their parents

╬ their brothers and sisters

╬ their friends

╬ those who are lonely

╬ those traveling to be safe

╬ those in the hospital

╬ those in prisons

╬ those who can’t see

╬ classmates

╬ those who are hungry and have no food

╬ those who have no children

╬ those who died

╬ and many others.

 Thank you parents, grandparents, teachers and many more who are good mentors to our youth.  These are the kind of youth that fill me with hope for our future!  


Fr. Terry’s Sharing

We have some new Rosary Stations in our daily Mass Chapel. 

If you have not stopped by to see them yet, please do so.  They will soon be blessed and dedicated.  I am asking a favor of:

¨ Rosary Groups  ¨ Catholic Daughters  ¨ Knights of Columbus 

 ¨ Boy Scouts  ¨ Women at the Well  ¨ Morning Men’s Group

¨ Youth Disciple Groups  ¨ Youth Groups  ¨ any other Groups, and

¨ any Individuals 

I invite you to organize a time to pray the Rosary in our Chapel.  This will add a grassroots blessing/dedication of the Rosary Stations from the Parish family.

The Rosary Stations were gifted to the Parish by Betty Wallace, in memory of her husband, John.


Last weekend we had

Volunteer Sign-up for the needs of Religious Education and for the Music Ministry. 

Obviously, to be a healthy and vibrant Parish, we need people to step up to help with the needs of the Parish family.  Please consider offering your talents, time, and presence.

You can stop by the Parish office and fill out a Volunteer Card or contact us @361-1600 to get signed up.


In light of the evil news of our church recently, I want to remind those who were gone last weekend to read the heart-felt letter from Bishop Paul Swain.  You can find it on the diocesan website, our parish website, or a hard copy from our Parish office.  If you are wondering how Pope Francis has responded, I direct you to:

The United States Catholic Conference has offered us this prayer for the victims

 Prayer for Healing Victims of Abuse

God of endless love, ever caring, ever strong,

always present, always just:  You gave your only Son

to save us by the blood of His cross.

Gentle Jesus, shepherd of peace, join to your own suffering

the pain of all who have been hurt in body, Mind, and spirit

by those who betrayed the trust placed in them.

Hear our cries as we agonize 

over the harm done to our brothers and sisters.

Breathe wisdom into our prayers, soothe restless hearts with hope,

steady shaken spirits with faith:  

Show us the way to justice and wholeness,

enlightened by truth and enfolded in our mercy.

Holy Spirit, comforter of hearts, heal your people’s wounds

and transform our brokenness.

Grant us courage and wisdom, humility and grace,

so that we may act with justice and find peace in you.

We ask this through Christ, our Lord.  Amen






Fr. Terry’s August 5th Bulletin Article

Signs of Faith in Action and Parish Family Gathering/Service

Summer slowdown, I think not!  Family dormant, I think not!  Parish hibernating, I think not!

Over the last Diocesan year of July 2017 thru June 2018

Baptisms – 61 children;  Adult receptions into Full Communion – 10;  Confessions – all that sought it out;  First Communions – 86;  Confirmations – 66;  Anointing of the Sick – those at home, hospitals, and after weekend Masses that sought it out;  Marriages – 29;  and Deaths – 28.

Youth Involvement over this summer

We had 30 participate in the Catholic Heart Work Camp in Knoxville, Tennessee

We had 23 participate in the Mission Trip to Guatemala

We had 35 participate in the Steubenville Conference

We had 16 participate in Summer Serve

We had 58 children, 6 junior high students and 10 high school students attend Totus Tuus

We had 11 attend Discipleship Camp

We had 6 attend a Search Retreat

Adult Opportunities over this summer

We had 191 attend the Msgr. Doyle Legacy Dinner and Fundraiser for Staff Salaries

We had 780 attend the Kathy Troccoli Concert

We hosted a Diocesan/Regional Stewardship Conference that had 204 participants

We have 20 taking our Summer Adult Classes for those interested in becoming Catholic

So many wonderful ways to get involved and participate! 

Were you included in one of these totals? 

If not, you are always welcome as we grow, learn, and serve as a

Parish Family Alive and Promoting the Kingdom of Heaven!


Fr. Terry’s July 15th Bulletin Article

Fr. Terry’s Sharing…

Called to Mission…spreading the Joy of the Gospel Message of Salvation by word and action!  Back in the days when my body was young, able to handle hard surfaces for sleeping and I lived with an adventurous spirit, I was on youth trips more numerous than I can remember.  Yes, I have reached the age where I have turned over that role to the younger clergy.  I truly benefited from all those trips and treasured experiencing them with the youth growing in faith and recognizing their gifts of service to others.

I do remember one of those late night conversations with the youth that was both humorous and thought-provoking.  The topic was, why do we never do any mission trips to resorts?  I think the hard floors and heat was getting to them.  In our conversation, we acknowledged that Jesus was known for going where people needed Him the most.  Often that meant to places that would never be described as what we would think of as a resort.  The sick, the lame, the poor, and the rejected do not live in those places.  And yet it is there when the deepest faith experiences can take place.  Jesus never let fear, what others thought or said, or even suffering stop him.  He brought the most important gift to be given…hope and love.  Jesus never counted the cost.  He always paid the price because real love demands it.  When we make choices, do we weigh the cost?  When we make choices, do we worry about what others will say or judge us by?  When we make choices, do we let fear rule us?   When we make choices, do we fail to sacrifice or suffer for others?  That night, and so many times after, I marveled at the faith of our youth.  Together we decided that being followers of Christ meant we wrestle with these questions and not avoid them.  Together we decided to be Christ-like.  And we acknowledged that each of us will ultimately have to decide the answers based upon where our faith was at.  I often remember one of the last comments made by a young lady.  She said, “I might fail some of those questions, but that doesn’t mean it ends there.  I hope I learn, grow, and deepen my faith in the relationship I have with God.  Then I trust some of those failed questions will not always have to remain that way.”

When our youth go on Mission trips, they not only represent themselves, but also our Parish.  If you know any of them, take the time to ask them about their experiences.  And let them know we are proud of them.


Fr. Terry’s June 17th Bulletin Article

Fr. Terry’s Sharing…

I recently read an article/critique of the new Star War’s movie “Solo”.  It had an interesting take on it.  In the original stories, there is a very wise Jedi teacher and mentor.  He keeps telling this young man by the name of Luke Skywalker that he has to learn who he is and to be open to being trained as a Jedi.  This cannot be rushed or done halfway.  Yoda, the mentor/teacher, taught him to engage the past not resentfully, but redemptively.  It was rooted in what only tradition can provide.  It is only in knowing where we come from that we can begin to understand where we are going.  In the new movies, Yoda is portrayed as going against this.  Both he and Luke fail to mentor and teach those coming after.  Therefore, in the way it is written, the new characters for whom the torch has been passed on to are struggling to forge identities in situations where they have been cut off from their pasts.  They are told to kill or ignore the past – that all they need is in their present and within them already –  everything they will ever need.

One of the struggles we are going through in the church today is that we have stopped mentoring or teaching someone to grow in their faith.  While it is never good to speak universally, there are some parents who have stopped mentoring their children in the ways of faith.  They have been a lost generation to knowing and living their faith, so they really do not have any way to teach, role model, and pass on the faith to the generation coming after them.  Sadly, this leads to faith being a pick and choose or choose and reject.  Do what you like and toss away everything else.  Then it becomes a superficial relationship with God and eventually with others.  Our faith becomes watered down and then we leave it up to the children and youth to do it on their own.

Let us make a stand and prepare those who come after us by the way we live, by what we say, and by the way we care about wanting the best for them.  Our tradition, our faith, our relationship with God is real and ultimately important for our salvation.


Fr. Terry’s June 3rd bulletin article


Fr. Terry’s Sharing… 

Being loved is a very powerful thing.  Nothing in life can take over everything more than that blessing/gift.  The thoughts, feelings, and mystery of love linger and get reserved in a special place in your heart that never goes away.  It is stored in your mind to be brought out and treasured multiple times, especially often when you need it the most.  Yes, even as a priest I have experienced loving and being loved in this powerful way by two women in my life.  Even though our lives went in different directions, they changed me forever.  Without having those experiences, I really feel that I could never be a good priest and a good pastor.  I could never know that depth of love, which is a sacrificial love that places others first in your life.  That never counts the cost and is a bottomless love that always grows each and every day.  I have a confession to make.  I have not told you everything.  This is something that all of you have the chance to experience in life.  It is a gift of love that has been given to each and every one of you with nothing held back.  It simply is unconditional.  You have received over and over, an invitation to this relationship.  All that is left is for you to open yourself to it.  To understand and commit to it, it does require a daily ‘yes’.  You see, besides these two women, there is one other.  That relationship even makes the relationship with those two pale in comparison.  It is there full force when we are happy, when we are sad, when we are scared, and when we are angry.  This relationship…this love is with God.  This weekend we celebrate the Body and Blood of Jesus.  A profound reminder to us that God is full in when it comes to us.  His love is sacrificial and unconditional.  Always, in the fullest sense offered on His end.  Never ever forced upon us in any way.  Freely given with no strings attached.  It is unconditional love and there is nothing we can do about it.  Isn’t that fantastic!  There is no better way to be loved!